Her love journey by Kizzy Barbra

Love is like a butterfly, the more you chase it the more it eludes , but if you let it fly it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts but love is special when you give it to someone who really is worth it …

So, why do you love your spouse?

Week 10 Last week we discussed how after being married for a while, trends set in and these begin to take root causing us to take each other for granted and small things such as a smile or an enthusiastic greeting loose meaning. There is the saying that “only those that are closest to you …

Jealousy, an evil enemy of love

Week 08 Picture with me for a moment, Jane married to Jonas. Jane having cheated on Jonas has found a new partner and would like to separate for some time. Imagine the talk that she has with Jonas, the feelings that Jonas has as he comes to terms with what is going on later on …

A first date, figuring him out by @Kawiria

The other day, a mutual friend I share with the boyfriend and who’s one of my best friends asked me, “how did you know he was serious?”The question did catch me off-guard and all I responded was, "he told me so". Then I thought that's pretty stupid of me considering actions speak louder than words. …

A key pillar to discovering what love is

Week 01: After my first post on Love Dare, here is what I learnt in Lesson 1. Love is real. It is. When you get sweaty palms, palpitations of the heart, muddiness of speech, well, that could also because you’re high on a substance. Many writers and counselors tell you that this feeling is bound to die, …

Marriage equality, will we ever achieve it? Does it even exist?

There is a saying in the village that “Vijana wanaenda Nairobi lakini masaa yakuoa wanarudi nyumbani” … looking at the Vijana that don’t go back to the village to look for a wife, we see that many marriages are nothing like what the older folk had. So what changed? Why is it that when a …

An open letter to my wife in waiting by @nasaye

Honey, I am writing to inform you of the present state of my heart. Some parts of this letter might seem like lamentations, desperate sentiments, or even bear the tunes of songs of the despairing hearts. They are the truest reflections of my heart nonetheless. The rules of the game say that our paths must …

I can propose to him right? by @SunnyLikeNjeri

After a lovely post by Raata Ngatha I am glad to host yet another one. Would you be so kind as to participate in the poll at the end of this post. Lets see if we can help Raata write her love story. We live in a very patriarchal society, where we wait for Feb 29th & a …

Infidelity/unfaithfulness, do all relationships suffer from it? by @nasaye

By @Nasaye The subject of infidelity is a hot one. It is an issue that touches the society in more ways than one and we are all affected in one way or the other. It is the subject of movies, jokes, and both radio and TV programs. But as a thorny moral issue, it is …

An end to girlfriend month by @SunnyLikeNjeri

by @SunnyLikeNjeri July 31... Well as they say (whoever they are oh wait it may just be pointless society that do not matter) I have had my fair share of boy-girl relationships that I would have loved to keep longer than their expiry date. But ain't I super glad I did not hold on to …