Making the most of marriage

Keeping each other engaged in the relationship with the mid morning texts, random date nights, and occasional gifts has taught me to think less of myself and think more about her. We find ourselves consumed with thoughts of our partner and how best we can support them in their dreams, ambitions and desires.

So you want him to be your boyfriend?

So you asked him to be your boyfriend or you told him that you liked him, and based on all the signs you expected he felt the same way that you did, but sadly he didn't. Turns out he thought you were “just friends” and now he has more or less thrown you into the …

Jealousy, an evil enemy of love

Week 08 Picture with me for a moment, Jane married to Jonas. Jane having cheated on Jonas has found a new partner and would like to separate for some time. Imagine the talk that she has with Jonas, the feelings that Jonas has as he comes to terms with what is going on later on …

Re-kindling that hope for love

Week 07 Last week one of my colleagues saw my ring and asked if I was married. With a proud beaming smile I said “YES I am married”. This was just loud enough for a few people to hear, because like most cases I when have been asked, a story of how we met would …

Am I Ready For Love? Part 6 – Heartbreak by @SueBuku

The biggest risk as far as loving someone is concerned, is heartbreak. In Part 3 (Love Is Not So Blind) we talked about some of the difficulties a couple may face as they get to know each other and that some choose to stay together while others choose to break up. At the point that …

Sometimes love just needs meaning

Week 04 A couple of weeks back we visited that feeling that comes when we first meet the person of our dreams, we get all caught up in each other’s  lives and are all excited about it. Ever asked yourself, how did you know that they were the one? When a guy is asking a …

Where is Mr(s) Right?

Single high power diva’s will they ever get a man after their own heart? This question was the subject of a hot topic one day. The super-powerful mami with that big car, that overbearing job title that has some long words in it suggesting that the paycheck is equally long before the decimal point. Why …

A selfless kind of love

Week 02 “Love is patient, love is kind” – 1 Corinthians 13:4a In my last post, I had a key pillar to discovering love as patience. As you might have guessed this week, the second pillar to discovering love is kindness. I don’t know if this happened for you but for me, my first weeks …

Love Dare, re-discovering love – An Introduction

Over the past few weeks I haven’t done much writing. Other than the normal pressures of life and the amazing guest posts that have been coming in keeping the blog active, I have been challenged to re-define love. This is the story of a journey. Many have watched the movie “Fireproof”. For those who haven’t …

She loves me, she loves me not by @africanplato

She loves me. I know she does. She loves me. But do I love her back? I do care for her but does that constitute love. There is no Romeo and Juliet take me to the stars and back kinda feeling here. You know, that movie kinda love where you can’t sleep can’t eat. She …