Loving your spouse is loving yourself

Week 11 Charlie’s car broke down. It was HIS car, it had seen him through thick and thin; from his first job interview to his first date and now, he had just moved house where he was going to settle with his family. Charlie got the call from the mechanic, the car was repairable, but …

Marriage equality, will we ever achieve it? Does it even exist?

There is a saying in the village that “Vijana wanaenda Nairobi lakini masaa yakuoa wanarudi nyumbani” … looking at the Vijana that don’t go back to the village to look for a wife, we see that many marriages are nothing like what the older folk had. So what changed? Why is it that when a …

Keeping your relationship in the green

I did a post that outlined the needs of a man in a relationship and another that outlined the needs of a woman in a relationship. It is funny to see how people reacted to each post. One thing that is clear, we all want to have our relationships work from day one, our inner …

Mum, you clicked at baba!

by Margaret Njoroge In the last couple of weeks my children have forced me to think hard about every comment that I make while at the house. I have to come to the grim realization that whenever I give any instructions regarding certain behaviors within the home, they closely watch to ensure that the rules …