Week13 I shared in my last post that the Mrs and I had fights and the kind of stance that I would take in a fight didn't help us get to solving issues any sooner. I hated having to fight. I didn't like how it made me look out of control. I never did seem … Continue reading Ten simple rules to having a fair fight with your spouse.
Week 12 In our first year of marriage, we fought a lot. During these fights I would take it on with a desire to sort the issue out immediately it crops up. Talk through every single step of how it came about and see where we went wrong. Whereas this sounds simple, it wasn't her … Continue reading When your spouse drives you up the wall
A whole life subversively conditioned to the possibility of being violated, sexually assaulted or raped. Worse still is the likely possibility of your sisters, your mother, your loved ones being as violated and you being *powerless* to bring address to it. This is the life of women in Kenya. 'Sit like this. Wear dark colours. Only loose … Continue reading Being a Woman in Kenya Part 1 #KenyaRapeCulture by @TheMumBi
Week 11 Charlie’s car broke down. It was HIS car, it had seen him through thick and thin; from his first job interview to his first date and now, he had just moved house where he was going to settle with his family. Charlie got the call from the mechanic, the car was repairable, but … Continue reading Loving your spouse is loving yourself
“Love takes off masks we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within” The journey that is dating has been a short one for me… It’s good to be able to say “I am in love”. It actually feels great. Like it has a life of its own. Like it has wings … Continue reading The masks surrounding love by @kawkeytrish
by @rodah_ I sat down and just thought where I have been and all I could do is to thank God for the new me. I dint think I could make it through when he left yes I was dumped hahaha (funny no? don’t even mind me……..continue reading] 1 year of dating and believing in … Continue reading Heartbreak, getting past it by @rodah_
Restless, I can’t even begin to try and sleep comfortably. Since the Westgate mall attack, I had a myriad of emotions, feelings and reactions. I don’t know what to think of the assailants, of their religion, of their I grew up in Nairobi, and studied in one of the city’s schools. This introduced me to … Continue reading #WeAreOne, our power of togetherness
She clearly could read the signs...there was no getting this one past her friend. They had always kept in touch and shared the deepest secrets but this friendship was under immense strain. Touching another's boyfriend had always been out of bounds and she knew better...who knew a simple conversation from her during one of her … Continue reading She did it, she knew she shouldn’t, his wife showed up
Relationships….one word, millions of reactions. When it comes to relationships, opinions come in all shapes and sizes from the do’s and don’ts, the roles that are to be played by each partner, expectations and what the ultimate relationship should consequently amount to. Our impression on these things is far from ubiquitous and what works for … Continue reading Will you be my boyfriend? by @daidey
“I wanna know how it feels to be loved, how it feels to be me, how it feels to be free. Gimmie the Magic x4 Do you wanna know how it feels to live life, how it feels to just smile, how it feels to be free? Gimmie the Magic x4” I love this … Continue reading The magic that holds your relationship together.